Im so depressed about my wedding............?

Can anyone cheer me up :( ok so here is the deal, for lots of reason that im not going into, I only have 32 days to plan my entire wedding! since we don't have time to save up money or plan anything, im not getting the wedding that i want! its actually NOTHING like what i want. We don't have time to get all the girls and guys into dresses and tux's so we aren't having any groomsmen or brides maids. i don't get to have a traditional beautiful big princess gown because we don't have the money to buy the one i want right now, so i had to settle for one that i could afford, its ok i guess. And since i just got invitations, out most people weren't informed in time to be able to get work off so there wont even be that many ppl. It seems like i get nothing that i want! You wedding is supposed to be the best day of your life and ill be lucky if i get through it without crying because of how pathetic its going to be! everyone says i can renew my vowels in a few years and have a big wedding them, but your supposed to have a big wedding first! My wedding is NOTHING like how i would plan it if i had more time and money :( im so upset, we cant even have a wedding cake cause we don't have time to get one made :( did anyone else go through this or am i alone on this one too :(